The Needs of New Mothers (1st time moms vs. 2+ moms)

One thing was clear from the very beginning of our business: every mom is different. Each mother wants different things and has different needs. And it starts to get interesting when you pair new moms with doulas. I didn’t realize this right away, but doulas have varying approaches. Some doulas are more educational. They’re there to help mom learn in the beginning of motherhood and to transition with grace. Others are more practical. They get down to business in the household: dishes, laundry, meal prep. Most doulas are just – simply – there for mom and whatever her needs are that day. Doulas are jugglers! They roll with the punches and do their best to use their skills to bless a new family.

Of course, there are certain postpartum no-brainers. Mothers need rest, time to heal, and moral support after childbirth. But beyond those things, things might be different every time. First time mothers need more of the educational side, things like tips on newborn care and lactation consulting. Mothers that have other children just want a clean house and to know their older kids are okay! The needs of mothers are widespread and as various as the mothers themselves. Surely it teaches us that one-size-fits-all doesn’t apply to the postpartum world. Did your needs change from baby to baby?

The Needs of New Mothers! Did your needs change from baby to baby?

How does Marabou support women?

Moms who used to “lie-in” for forty days now have to pick themselves up within a week to get back to work. Grandmas, sisters and best friends who otherwise would have been there to help a woman transition into motherhood now live too far away and often can’t take time away from their full time job. Household chores and caring for older children fall on the woman who just delivered a new life and whose body needs rest. But we live in a sprawled world and helping hands are plentiful but often too far to be of benefit. 

Marabou Services is a unique gift registry which provides services instead of stuff. Most mom’s get too many onesies, too many baby blankets and not enough helping hands. How can you give you daughter living in Japan married to a Navy sailor a helping hand? How can you lend a hand to your best friend who moved to California? How do you ask for help when none of your family lives near you anymore?

Start a Marabou Gift Registry!

With a Marabou gift registry you can ask for any service you know will be of benefit during postpartum recovery.

Postpartum doulas for a first time mom

House cleanings for moms of multiples

Childcare for moms with older children!

Once your registry is created, add it to any other registry or post it to your Facebook and ask that your friends and family contribute to your postpartum service, rather than buying you more stuff.

More and more moms find they have to figure out postpartum alone. Women don't have the same support like they used to. Is it any wonder why PMDs are on the rise? Women are embittered by the journey through motherhood simply because no one was there to lend a hand.

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