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The Baby Shower Favor with a Toast!

Guest favors at a baby shower are super fun, aren’t they? I love getting a little something to say, Hey, thank you for coming. Enjoy this treat! Usually, favors are used or consumed quickly. This idea is extra fun, though, since you can bring it home and get to have solidarity with the other guests when baby arrives.

Oh, and wine is also good. 😉

This favor is super easy and doesn’t require you to be really crafty or industrious. Just:

  1. Buy small bottles of wine or champagne. You can do a mix of red and white or do all one kind.
  2. Print out toast cards on cardstock (find our printable here). Cut them out, with a paper cutter if you have one. Hole punch and attach two to each bottle with ribbon – one guest copy and one mom copy.
  3. At the shower, have each guest write down her toast for mom and baby – once on each card. She’ll take one card home and mom-to-be will take the other.
  4. When mom announces the birth of her baby, each guest (wherever she is) pours herself the wine and toasts mom and baby. The louder the better! Mom gets to read over all the toasts being said for her and her newborn and know the well wishes everyone has for them.

This ritual allows everyone to connect with mom remotely and for mom to feel connected to everyone else, even before she’s able to take visitors!

To take it a step further, make or buy a beautiful book or box that mom can keep her toasts in. Huzzah!

How does Marabou support women?

Moms who used to “lie-in” for forty days now have to pick themselves up within a week to get back to work. Grandmas, sisters and best friends who otherwise would have been there to help a woman transition into motherhood now live too far away and often can’t take time away from their full time job. Household chores and caring for older children fall on the woman who just delivered a new life and whose body needs rest. But we live in a sprawled world and helping hands are plentiful but often too far to be of benefit. 

Marabou Services is a unique gift registry which provides services instead of stuff. Most mom’s get too many onesies, too many baby blankets and not enough helping hands. How can you give you daughter living in Japan married to a Navy sailor a helping hand? How can you lend a hand to your best friend who moved to California? How do you ask for help when none of your family lives near you anymore?

Start a Marabou Gift Registry!

With a Marabou gift registry you can ask for any service you know will be of benefit during postpartum recovery.

Postpartum doulas for a first time mom

House cleanings for moms of multiples

Childcare for moms with older children!

Once your registry is created, add it to any other registry or post it to your Facebook and ask that your friends and family contribute to your postpartum service, rather than buying you more stuff.

More and more moms find they have to figure out postpartum alone. Women don't have the same support like they used to. Is it any wonder why PMDs are on the rise? Women are embittered by the journey through motherhood simply because no one was there to lend a hand.

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